Oh BW, :hugs: How awful they've been

I am so mad i am spitting feathers here! Do they feel, as teachers with no expertise, they know more about how miscarriages are caused than your FS?!? To say thinks like that to you, now of all times, when you need kindness and support, is just despicable.

I wouldn't decide ANYTHING right now. I'd wait until DH gets in, cry, talk, hug, allow yourself to get through this extra pain they've needlessly inflicted. Then sleep on it and see how you feel at the weekend say. If another person says a single word to you give them hell, tell them EXACTLY what you think of their "advice" and of your privacy having been breached and of the whole shoddy deal. I wish i could be there to do that for you, i know how hard it is when you don't want to break down and just getting through the day is tough enough.

Money is a worry but remember through all of this that your job, DH's job, are there to provide the cash you need to do what you want in life. If they start costing more than the money is "worth" then you get out of there! There are other jobs, there are 1001 ways to make money. Having to go into a place where people treat you appallingly and grind away at you until you're desperately unhappy SHOULD NOT be one of them. YOU and DH are the important numbers in this equation (yeah i went there with the maths! ) not your job or the idiots that work there.

BW, take care hun.

Bec