I've been wondering If I'm being over-sensitive... I've been wondering if I've reached the point where I just have to "get over it" and get on with life. Reading the comments so far tells me that I'm not. Especially when you consider this in light of the absolutely disgusting way I was treated last year.

I also don't see where they can get off telling me that stress contributed to the miscarriage when it happened at the end of a three-week break and I was not at all concerned about going back - I was actually excited, eager to be back, and trying to think of ways to break the news of the pregnancy to the kids...

I really don't know what to do, though. I can't see us being able to afford IVF if we don't have both wages, especially as mine is the greater... so in the end, if I stop work, it kind of defeats the purpose of doing so.

I also can't see how me leaving at this point is in any way fair to my year 12 students (one thing they threw at me today - me having been off for a week wasn't fair to them) who are already stressed enough right now!

I have a really, really bad headache (too many tears, again), and I just want DH to be home! I can't decide what to do, and I'm in no state to make a decision any time soon. Maybe if we can get some answers at our appointment next week it will be an easier decision to make.

BW