Hello again,
in response to your questions, i have read on here in other threads that you can get pg straight away without having a period, as long as you are ovulating, i have even read of others docs saying that after a d&c one can be very fertile!
The recommendation to not have sex for 2 weeks is to safeguard against infection, i didnt wait that long either, maybe a week, it felt right so i did it, i actually felt like i needed it, to reconnect dp and i on some level and to re affirm our love etc,etc sounds corny but life begets life iykwim.
with your bf, have you tried talking to him? I sort of gave up talking about the mc as i could sense my dps disinterest and his eyes would sort of glaze over, but then i had a breakdown and poured out my heart about how neglected and mis understood i felt and he did try a lot harder, he notices if i look down and doesnt just try to jolly me out of it, i have to constantly remind myself that he is not a mind reader.
anyway hope this is some help to you.