Hey,

So I am new to this site sorry it may take me awhile to get used to it. But here is my story: last Tuesday I found out about my baby passed away in my tummy. I was 11 weeks and the baby had passed away at about 7-8 weeks. Last Friday I had a D&C to get my baby removed. I am so devastated I don't know what to do. I am very young and this would be my first baby; but I feel so alone and sad that this had happened to me. I am very lucky and have a great support system but I am joining this site to find people who can relate to me. My family, boyfriend and friends are all sad, but no one understands what I am going through and it is very hard for me. From what I have read other people have been in my situation... it is nice to know. I hate how I am feeling and I am so confused about everything. I just have a few questions that I hope people can answer...

1. Is it normal to want to try and conceive as soon as you are able to? I feel crazy... But I just want a baby back in my stomach.

2. How long do you have to wait to try and conceive? My doctor told me to wait until my 1st period and then try but is that safe?

3. My mom told me it was normal for guys to act weird and pretend that nothing really happened but it is making me mad... how normal is too normal? I know he is sad... and he wanted this baby more than I did in the beginning(obviously it was an unplanned pregnancy) but now I feel like I wanted it more... I just don't understand!

I have sooo... many questions so if someone could please write back to me that would be great! I am so confused! I have tried to find support groups in my area but they only occur like once a month! I need to go way more then once a month! So if I could talk to anyone that would be great! I am just trying to find some answers...