not sure how to cope...

[AJC]

Brings tears to my eyes reading this. I'm sure you'll find good support in here. Even though I've been through what you're going through I don't have any words of wisdom. Time was the only thing that really eased the pain for me. I also planted trees for our little bub's, a Magnolia for our first and a flowering Peach for our second. I'm a bit of a gardening fanatic so I found a lot of healing in my garden.

[cindyb]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss - its just not fair and nothing anyone can say will make you feel any better. I have to say from experience though, you never forget but the hurt does get easier with time!
I know the girls on BB got me though mine! Just know that we arw all here for you! Look after yourself and DP and remember to cry, scream, talk if ad when you feel like it, Your grief is yours only, so ignore all those comments from people - they dont mean to be insensitive- they just dont know what else to say!