In tears reading this. i went through the same thing on november 11th,it was my second m/c in 6 months. I also was 9 weeks and had been bleeding off and on from 6 weeks,i had scans for three weeks and when i went for the last one there was no heartbeat. I too had medical management and bled for two weeks after.
I am still devastated and know what you mean by feeling alone.
heart goes out to you both.