I'm so sorry to hear of your loss - its just not fair and nothing anyone can say will make you feel any better. I have to say from experience though, you never forget but the hurt does get easier with time!
I know the girls on BB got me though mine! Just know that we arw all here for you! Look after yourself and DP and remember to cry, scream, talk if ad when you feel like it, Your grief is yours only, so ignore all those comments from people - they dont mean to be insensitive- they just dont know what else to say!