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  1. #1
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    Jan 2008
    New Zealand
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    Unhappy

    Dearest Nicki, my heart goes out to you, I'm so so sorry that you have to go through this.
    I've been there and there is nothing anyone can say that will make it better.
    As wonderful as people are and as supportive as your husband is, you just don't know what its like till it happens to you.
    I planted a rose for my twins as my special thing and am planning a tattoo at some stage.
    Just be kind to yourself and allow yourself to grieve, it's so important, don't let people tell you it wasn't meant to be or its just one of those things. It is a loss of a person, dreams and plans, don't let anyone dismiss it.
    It will take time but it will get a little easier. You will never forget, I'm bawling eight years on, tears for you and me and the many women who endure this. Takecare Sweetie

  2. #2
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    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    Nicki

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear little baby. It feels like the pain will never go away but give yourself time to grieve and eventually you will begin to heal.

    I think the idea of a symbol to remember your baby is wonderful. I have a necklace and a pendant that I hold dear as a memory of my son.

    I know there is a website which sells memorial necklaces so I'll BBL with the link.

    Take care sweetie.

    Lv Spring

    ETA: The address is Miscarriage and Infant Loss Memorial Jewelry, Sympathy Gifts
    Last edited by Spring Angel; March 11th, 2008 at 11:01 AM.

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