My grandma had a baby that was born still. Her name was Heather and it's on our baby name shortlist. I think my Dad would be honoured if we used his sister's name (Grandma passed away a while ago), especially as there was no gravestone or anything else acknowledging this little soul. For me, it would honour a much loved and wanted baby who didn't make it.

But I can see the other side too. Whether from superstition or not wanting to remind someone else of there loss.