I completely agree with what you have said Divvy. I think however there is a difference between people giving their opinion and then people pushing their views on you and telling you that you are wrong when you make your own decision. I posted a thread recently about induction given the difficult situation I was in with DH's work and I was floored by some of the responses I had. I know it wasn't just me that thought it was a little forceful and inappropriate as I had several members PM who were also shocked with some of the responses I received.

I have to admit there are things on here that I would like to ask, but feel like I cannot ask because of the one sided views that I would have to deal with.