Teni, i didn't mean to offend you in my earlier post - just thought i'd put my opinion out there. the other thing is, be ready for your mind to change about visitors when bub is actually here, with dd i asked all my family (ex. parents and g.parents) to come the next day, cause i was shattered and drugged t the hilt after ds was born, and i was soo disappointed i didn't have more people there to show her off to, cause i felt great. and honestly, people don't tend to hold newbies for that long, you will still have loads of time to bond xo