I had 2x c/s and do feel like I missed out a bit - but without both my girls wouldn't be here and the feeling of disappointment gets less as time goes on. Also if I had to make a choice between a natural birth and a trouble-free pregnancy and breastfeeding relationship I would opt for the c/s. I try to focus on the bits that were positive ie. I had 2 great pregnancies with no issues at all and I BF both DD's for over 14 months so looking back I do feel happy and blessed that I was able to do the thing that was ultimately the most important thing to me.

You need to do what you feel will be the best thing for you and your baby. If that is another c/s then that is your decision. Your friend is projecting her own desires on to you and that isn't fair.