I have had 2 emergency ceasers, one while trying for a vbac and i always feel i have missed out, but these are my own issues and as time goes on it gets easier. I would be like that lady BUT i wouldnt tell you what i think is right for you! If your comfortable with the decisions you have made thats all that matters, dont worry about her opinions....that are just that HER opinions and not what is going to work for you

Be at peace with what you decide