OOOHHHH the hemorrhoids - gosh !!!!! Labour is easy compared to the hemorrids you can sometimes get afterwards!!!!!!
And the little 'scratches' on your labia that burn when you go to toilet afterwards...and what to do and how to sit....

Read all about labour in the first 6 months then read all about baby care in your 7-9 month and just touch up on labour in the last month too.
There is no time to figure out what to do with baby once they are born you have to the wing'it. I was so worried about the birth i never read about baby care and gosh was I in for a shocker cause it doesn't always come naturally.

1st baby labour - sometimes there is no urge at all to push but that you can still push.
1st baby after birth - breastfeeding doesn't come naturally,
within the first 12months - sleep every chance you get and a mother must follow her instincts if she suspects something is wrong with their child.

2nd baby labour - can be a MUCH shorter labour and before you have even thought about calling your MW you could have a sudden huge urge to push!!!
2nd baby after birth - no two babies are the same - I kinda new this but sometimes one can be anxious about certain thing unnecessarily and that breast feeding can be easy and natural. (I was so nervous after my 1st child)