Hi Ladies,

So with the memory of my Son's Birth still lingering at the back of my mind I am really struggling to decide how I am going to birth my second.

Every part of me is saying Caesarean - but everyone I have told as given me "the look" sort of like a mixture of pity and disappointment. This really makes me upset, they don't know what I went through and why on earth should I have to justify myself to them.

So what I want to know is, why did you decide to have a caesarean? Was it because you had to have one, because you wanted to have one, or because like me you had a traumatic birthing experience first time around and didn't want to put yourself through it again?

Any experiences welcome....I don't know what I want to get out of this, only support to make my own decisions I guess

Sorry if this thread is pointless....baby brain and guilt are making me feel out of touch with myself.