I did struggle at first with the idea that 'I' gave birth... now I have come to the conclusion that 'I' birthed DS with some help and that is ok and no different to those who VB with help (hope that makes sense) I like to think that he came via the emergency exit and can't wait for him to ask so I can show him the scar.

BTW after seeing my sister give birth vaginally and then walk back to her room with bub while I was barely able to walk to the bathroom only a few steps away there is nothing easy about a c/section.