I think the OP is no longer reading this and maybe we should too. It's gone somewhere that was not intended. We all have our reasons for doing what we are doing and unless someone is being offensive or causing immediate danger to themselves or someone else, I don't see why we can't welcome them on this forum and have open discussions without anyone feeling offended. I didn't know that this forum was only for certain people. I have only known it to be supportive, informative and sometimes good for a giggle.