I don't know what to do

[Nadine]

Bathsheba- Yep totally agree with you that love and affection is important.

Oh and I forgot to say, but Bathsheba did:

The biggie (of all my suggestions, I know there are a few now LOL) is to Catch him being Good! And praise him

Good Luck. You will get there. Just stay strong and don't give up


Oh I just thought of another thing. Everytime he is naughty and/or doesn't listen (after 3 warnings) take a toy away. Start with his favourite one. He gets it back after being good for a certain time (rest of day or a couple of days, or whatever you decide on) if not then another toy gets taken etc etc. If he does get a toy back then give him the one that was last taken. Don't let him see where you stash the toys or he will help himself to them.