Thank you Liz. You just made my point. You have EXACTLY what I say I want, but choose not to achieve at this point in my life for the good of my children. You have the balance of being with your children during the day and "other" work that fits in around them.

Mayaness - I will extend my comment that I find the sentiment insulting to you also then.

I've had enough of this thread and in fact BB. I think its a shame that there is a group of ladies on BB that seem to have an aversion to anyone having a different view to them. Its what is making people leave in droves and its what makes the ladies that have sent me encouraging PMs about my posts here (for which I thank you lovelies) reluctant to post because of what the response will be.