Who are we to say who should and shouldn't have children
Well, for the record, all of us still in the thread haven't said that.
As for fulfilment, I thought we'd got past that sticking point - which was brought up by a member who left, possibly due to confusion over what we were talking about.
The topic is not about mental stimulation and SAHM's in the least.
No-one here has at all said the FF mums are ALL unhappy with what led them there. That's just making stuff up about what's been said in this thread.
We've been saying what we're saying and no more. Any other conclusions, assumptions or parallels you want to draw are at your own peril! The thread could really degenerate if you're going to assume we're talking about ALL mothers again - we are not. We're talking about vulnerable mothers who want to hear this to justify decisions that may or may not, in reality, lead to that Happy Baby...as long as they hear the 'Happy Mummy' bit. At least, that's what I'm working on here.