I haven't read all of this thread. but gonna say this....

I think sometimes An unhappy mum is the work of a happy baby. Im sure there are days (and nights) when my kids pueposely push my buttons just so they can have a giggle at me. Its like an inside joke between them
Take Isla & Iain for example. Iain is lovely, sleeps though most nights. What more could I ask for with 4 kids? Well Isla thought it would be funny to revert back to wake 3 times a night.
She is happy cuz she is getting boobie through the night, But I ain't cuz I want to take advantage of my new baby sleeping though. So I think Isla is having a good ol laugh at me!
Well not for long though cuz I have cottoned on & Im gonna have to tuffin up on this constant waking!

LOL so yeah I think my kids are all have a secret little laugh at me thinking to themselves "Sucker!!" LOL

Na I don't really think that. Happy baby's=Happy kids/Happy family's. But we can't all be happy at the same time. Well we can get everyone happy at the same time, it just takes a bit of hard work sometimes & no one likes hard work.