I met my now DH and 4 months later I found out I was pg and I was 6 weeks along so I had fallen pg just over 2 months of being together, his family hated me for it, his mum never said a thing about it never acknowleged it and for a gift she chucked a couple of things from woolies in a plastic shopping bag and said here ya go thats our pressie to you, hmmmm I always felt very misplaced with them and to some extent I still do, I mean I have now been with DH for over 7 years and when we told her about having another baby she just said nothing she was not happy about it and cant see why we would want to, when we lost that baby she just said ' well it was not meant to be then was it perhaps its a sign to leave it there' OMG I could have litteraly jumped down her throat, we are now having a baby and everything is going well and now I just rub it in her face by talking openly about it and showing her how happy we are after all isnt that what its all about.

Peiter may have been an oops but we knew the risks and were nervous but happy about our pg and he was by far the best thing that has ever happened to me, and he was meant to be, I had been carless in other relationships but never once fell pg so how could it have not been meant to be, even if we had not planned it for that time someone else had plans for us.

good luck to you hun, be happy and show them your happiness regardless of your age or how long you have been together etc... none of that matters now I went through my pg with Peiter feeling worried about what others thought and I think that caused me immense morning sickness due to the stress and its just not worth it, this child is meant to be yours regardless of the circumstances.