Thats okay Bonham, im the same hehe gotta know everything, think its part of sitting at home and not having much else to do hehe. Its part of the fun
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Ali- oh ok then fair enough, just that im a qualified mechanic and when i was reading what was wrong with your car it just didnt sound right, glad its all fixed now. DP is paying for a cleaner to clean our place next Tuesday as its 3 levels and just WAY too much for me to do on my own, so whenever this bubs decides to make her entrance i'll have a nice clean house that i wont have to worry about.
Jess- Sorry to hear your purse was stolen, total PITA!!. I hope you got your cards blocked/cancelled before the person who took it could try anything & also hope that it doesnt take too long to get replacement cards.
Kass- Not sure how to make the photo for your ticker smaller, i'm still trying to work out this reputation business haha.
Sal- Nice one on picking up your dog & by the sounds of it the car trip wasnt too bad for you.
Meg- Fair enough i was just curious is all, i'm a sticky beak these days haha.
Thats okay Bonham, im the same hehe gotta know everything, think its part of sitting at home and not having much else to do hehe. Its part of the fun
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thanx jo....such a pain it is....i feel like ive been invaded.
yeah i rang the bank and cancelled the card that was an effort in its self ill get my new card end of the week. i dunno i just feel sooo grrrrr ya know?lol
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Ali- Joel is a full time combat engineer. He was thinging about going infantry (Has alot of mates that are infantry) but I said NO cause they get alot of deployments and with a baby coming I didn't want to have to be by myself...that didn't seem to work cause it looks like he is going to Afghanistan in March anyway!!!!
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Morning ladies
Nina, Cate is in Sydney so that Elouise can visit her dad.
Well last night was a complete and utter waste of time! I would have rather had spent it alone her and talking with you guys. Hmmmph. I was at Nigels and he paid absolutely no attention to me until he wanted to go to bed, by that time I was already in bed and just about to sleep! Sometimes I just feel like I'm wasting my time. I love him, but I need to feel loved back and after last night I feel everything but loved. I realise he doesn't want to be smothered, but I made the effort to go to his place, when there was no reason why he couldnt come to mine, there was no-one home!! I'm always running around and going to see him, he doesn't come to see me
I feel so hurt, he has NO IDEA what the last year (especially the last 2-3 months) has been like for me, he acts like everything is honky dory. He asked me why I was upset last night and said that I should be happy. I told him yeah, its kinda hard to be happy when I feel like I'm in your way here. I told him that he needs to make more of an effort and that I was sick of running around after him!
We will see how things go. Hope everyone else is good
Take Care
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Sally just dont make 2 much of an effort guys like a challenge, but not 2 much of one. If he really wants a life with u and Brendan he'll make the effort, and then u'll know how important u r 2 him from how hard he tries with u.
Sally he sounds like his got alot of growing up 2 do, most guys do it quickly after bubs is born but some take time or u making hardly any effort 2 c what they've got. Our guys r young and i doubt that Nigel's m8's have bubs so he needs 2 get over that and relise u and Brendan r more important then the life he once had. Make an effort 4 Brendan but when it comes 2 u and him keep ur feet on the ground.
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Thanks kass
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oh well maybe he just needs grow up. What r hes family like? also what does iykwim mean? I also dont have many hang out m8's thats y im starting 2 meet ppl at things 4 bubs coz i cant stand it anymore!
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iykwim: if you know what i mean
He definately needs to grow up! His family, hmmm most are nice and supportive, ect. his mum is a B!tch. She seems to always be in a cow of a mood. and she doesn't teach her kids anything, they are supposed to grow up and move out and she hasnt taught them to cook or clean up after themselves. There is a 21, 19 and 16 yo at home and she does all their washing and runs arround picking up their plates and rubbish ect. Now they expect that from their partners, which makes it bloody hard for me!!!
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Jess - sorry to hear about your wallet. I got my wallet stolen when I was on a holiday in Melbourne.. So had no money, no ID to get on place.. Ah it sucked.
Sally - aw sorry to hear it didn't go as well. Young boys are so very immature and yes, have a lot of growing up to do. Especially if his mum babied him.
As for me.. Ruben and I went and looked at daycares yesterday. There's not much availability! I'm wondering how many days to put him in for.. I think I'll start with 2 days, then work it up more if I need more time for study and uni. When we walked in, he started getting upset and very clingy and I had to carry him. He thought I was gonna leave him, awww..
DP and I have started doing weights at home. OH MY GOD my whole body is aching. I can barely lift my arms.. it's a struggle to type.. my legs hurt.. Everytime ruben wants to cuddle up it all hurts sooo much. Does anyone else do exercise? How do you stay motivated?
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well we have at least one thing in common IL's that **** us off! That could b is problem he hasn't needed 2 b a man his hole life and doesn't know how 2 deal with is responsiblities
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just a quick one reaganelizbeth 2 do exercise and 2 stay motivated, eat really good foods this also contributes 2 a great sex life, if u eat right!
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hey kass
I try and eat pretty good. All the dinners I cook I get off diet/nutritional websites. We don't really eat crap, I just don't buy it from the shops. The best thing I find is eating dinner for lunch... so we have dinner around 3 or 4, and then maybe a tiny snack at around 6 (only if we're hungry) and it works really well
do you work out as well?
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HAHA! Whats excercise????mwahahaha!
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HAHA exercise, whats that again?? for me its getting up off the lounge to walk to the toliet or walking around the house. Before i fell pregnant i use to go to the 'Curves' Gym atleast 3 times a week and LOVED it.
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Hahaha you girls are hilarious.
I know what you mean!
I went to a gym for around 2/3 months when Rubes was around 4 months old.. but caught the flu and never went back haha.
DP is really getting down about his shape, even though he genuinely isn't overweight, just not toned. So we both do weights in the evening. It's suuuccch hard work.
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Excercise????? I walk to the car and back. Does that count?
Sorry all but Im about to have a rant......
Let me tell you about the OB appointment I was supposed to have today. I booked it in nearly 4 weeks ago for 5pm tonight. Now I live just over an hour from the OB Im seeing because of the hospital I have chosen to go to.
Yesterday at 10.30am I got a phone call to confirm my appointment for 5pm. No problems. Then at 1pm I got a phone call saying they had double booked me for 5pm and they close at 5pm but they had a cancellation and could I be there at 2.40pm. No biggie coz I had enough notice.
I got there at 2.15pm to make sure Im early because sometimes it takes longer than an hour to get there. Just as I pulled into the car park I got another phone call saying he had been called out and wouldnt be back untill 3.30pm could I make my appointment at 5pm again? No not really. Anyway I went inside and spoke to them. Apparently the OB was called out at 12pm-ish and they knew then that he wouldnt be back until 3.30pm but didnt bother calling because they didnt think it was important (Not that I mind if he gets called out, thats his job, but it was that they knew at 12.30pm that he wouldnt be back until 3.30ish and didnt call me then)
So they told me I could sit around and wait but he had 2 people to see when he got back who were there waiting for him (However no cars in the carpark and noone in the only waiting room) and I probly wouldnt be seen until 4.30pm or I could rebook my appointment for 5pm. Neither of which was suitable because I have to pick up DF at 5pm (which was arranged after they changed my appointment yesterday)
So I asked if I could make another appointment on another day and they were telling me it'd be too late and I have to have it today and there was no other option. Anyway in the end I got another appointment for Tuesday.
So by the time I got back to the car I was bawling my eyes out and was peeved coz I'd just spent over an hour driving when I didnt need to, and DF was too busy at work for me to explain to him everything.
So I'm over today.
Sorry all for the big sook,
Ash - Hopefully you'll get all your replacement cards soon. It horrible having no cards
Sally- I hope all works out with Nigel.
Jo - Not long to go now, are you excited, or nervous, or do you just want to get it over with?
Sorry if I missed anyone.
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Sorry all about the previous post. I had to vent. I was annoyed that they knew the OB wouldnt be there for my appoinment for 2 hours before my appoinment and they didnt call until just before.
Hope everyone is having a good day
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