Sally just dont make 2 much of an effort guys like a challenge, but not 2 much of one. If he really wants a life with u and Brendan he'll make the effort, and then u'll know how important u r 2 him from how hard he tries with u.
Sally he sounds like his got alot of growing up 2 do, most guys do it quickly after bubs is born but some take time or u making hardly any effort 2 c what they've got. Our guys r young and i doubt that Nigel's m8's have bubs so he needs 2 get over that and relise u and Brendan r more important then the life he once had. Make an effort 4 Brendan but when it comes 2 u and him keep ur feet on the ground.