Tubal Reversals #15

[storm]

OH boy it was the worst time ever, I never want to be without it again LC!!
Bummer about missing this cycle, will you be able to try again next one?

[dearmum]

Hi LadiesIm not going to good because im still bleeding,im starting to think maybe im not meant to have another baby,i feel like that but i still wish for one.Time seems to drag out when you are looking forward to something.Blah im not feeling to positive.

Hi Luv....Babe how come you couldnt do a cycle?

Hi Onemore & Storm....Gosh time has gone by quick for you guys.It must feel so good being pregnant,i miss it bad.

Hi Mumof6...I still think wow 6 kids when i type your name lol.Ok when is the next hehe.

Hi Kiya....Babe when will you be doing a cycle?

Hi Waggers...I would say go for it!do the reversal i think you will feel satisfied after that,i know i should of had it done yrs ago.Good luck with it all.

Hi to everyone else....

[storm]

OMG Dearmum, I am so sorry for your loss, I never realised. Big hugs.

[kiya]

Hey Dearmum......i was hoping to start my cycle soon, but we are now going to wait until the new year, so we have a fresh start......plus i also want to lose some of this unwanted weight.....i have piled on the weight of late, and feel so frumpy....LOL.....sorry to hear that you are still bleeding that bites....Hope it all ends soon and then you can start again....Cheers kiya

[onemore]

Hi Dearmum, sorry you are still having a rough go... should`nt be too much longer before the bleed stops, have you been to the Dr about it ? I remember after my m/c I spotted for about 2 weeks but then it took 6 weeks before I got af again and the waiting was just aweful. All I could think about was getting pg again. I really feel for you and I hope you can get underway with another bub soon.

How is everyone else doing ?

Well think I might hit the sack, goodnight all.
Take care
xxx

[dearmum]

Thanks Ladies....
I wish i could give you all good news,but im thinking if im going to ever get pregnant it wont be this year gosh this year suxs.This has to be my worst year ever i mean i have lost approx $300,000 in shares and all my homes have dropped in value so iv had to sell them at a loss and to top it off i lost my baby hmm what else can i have taken from me.Now i have nothing so i really hope next year will bring me happiness.Sorry its a all about me post.

Im must say im still greatful i have my health,and my family thats worth more than any money can buy.

[Mumof8]

Yay your back Storm i miss you and Maz shes a slack tart too lol.
So your having a little boy thats awesome so does that make it 3 of each??

Onemore give your tum a rub for me

Luv.....take care darl you are all ways in my thoughts.

Dearmum... You have the world at your feet. Dont be sad just be happy you have a loving family and good health. Money doesnt mean anything really darl cause money just causes trouble. There are more babies for you im sure but your body needs to refresh itself. Dont be so hard on yourself "all good things come to those who wait".
I bleed for 8 weeks after i had my first baby but maybe a trip to the doctors would be a good idea just for piece of mind.xxx

As for me having another baby it wont be this year cause i intend on getting pi$$ed for my 30TH which is next month.
Im still in two minds as to weather i want another one.
Breah is growing up so fast everytime i look at her i think of how special she is and how she completes me. Take care girls... Mwah!

[kiya]

Hey Emm.....hope you have a great b'day next month and get absolutely smashed.....LOL....go with what is in your heart about having another baby....as for bleeding.....i'm currently bleeding every 2nd week for nearly a week.....it is driving me insane.....who knows what my body is doing these days.....if it continues like this they it will delay my cycle even more....bugger......take care girls...cheers kiya

[dearmum]

Thanks EmmYeh i suppose thats me i want things now not later,but i should chill about it but sometimes its hard,like today i went to BigW and i had to pass the baby section but all i could think about was my loss.I feel if i get pregnant the pain will ease a bit.
Wow the big "30" i remember having my 30 and it hit me,i thought gosh im getting old now...lol.Nah there is no rush for another bub your still young,when the time comes you will decide.(It would be nice to get pregnant the same time as me though hehe)

Hi Kiya....Gosh i feel for you having blood every second weekmaybe you can ask your doc to put you on the pill.Babe lets try a cycle together?mine will be sometime early next year.

Well im off to get my dinner

[kiya]

dearmum.....sounds like a plan darl......i was thinking sometime in the early new year.....i unfortunately can't go on the pill because of getting blood clots.....the only thing that is ok is the depo needle....when i do my cycle.....thankfully i only have to be on the pill for so many weeks, but i have to inject twice daily with clexane (blood thinner) to compensate and it will also help with my endo......chin up babe....i know how hard it is to be in a shop like BIG W or kmart etc and you go near the baby section, especially after a loss.....it just rips your heart out, but i believe it also makes you so much stronger later on......gosh "30" seems so long ago now for me anyways....wow i would love to be "30" again.....but then i also wouldn't change anything i have done since and the wonderful cyber friends i have also made......cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

Dearmum,
I wont be having anymore babies as my Df and are over. Months and months of struggles but i cant do it no more. Take care

[kiya]

Oh Emm.....sweetheart....you ok....i'm so sorry to hear about you and DF.....how you holding up.....you know where i am if you want to chat.....**huggles** kiya

[onemore]

Em, so sorry hun... hope your doing OK. We are all here for you if you need us.
Take care

Hi to everyone else

[waggers]

Hi Ladies

One more thanks for the heads up with the hosi notes i got them today.

For those who have had the opp, is the operation day stay or do you have to stay in?

Kiya Have your symptoms stoped? Im finding mine are really starting to get to me im a bit worried that there might be something else going on in there to cause this much discomfort. I really Dread the week up to the getting AF. I too suffered Endro but once i feel pregnant it went away. If i had any idea of what the side effects would be i would not of had this done, wonder why they dont mention this.

Dearmum my heart goes out to you i really hope that things start getting better for you soon. I am the biggest believer in positive thinking sometimes its hard but i really think it works.

Well i have 4 more sleeps until my appointment at the RHW so hopefully will be able to report back with some good news

Take care all

[karend]

Hi Waggers.... welcome... I'm currently on the waiting list at the Royal Womens to get my tubes reversed.... I have been on the waiting list about 6 mths. The hospital stay after the op is about 3 days.

Mumof6...Sorry to hear about you and DF...Keep your chin up

Everyone else....Take care...

[kiya]

Hey Waggers.......they found i had the endometrosis over 2 years ago, but they seem tot hink i had it before my last baby 8 years ago....i had surgery to burn most of it away, but they said by doing that it doesn't get rid of it completely and it does come back.....i hate at the moment getting AF every 2 weeks, but i believe it is happening for a reason and when it is time to start my cycle my body will be at the right stage to start......the dr's do believe that woman have side effects from having a TL and that it is all in the woman's head.....and see most of these dr's are MALE, so hell how do they know what woman go through and what we feel.....if only they could for 1 mp cycle go through what a woman who has a TL, then maybe just maybe they will understand, and not look at us as if to say we need to see someone from mental health.....take care all....cheers kiya

[dearmum]

Hi Mumof6Babe if you ever want to talk im here you can PM me any time.Your DH is the one that will miss out,i hope he has thought about this very carefully as there is kids involved.I guess at the end of the day you have to do what makes you happy.
Take care ok im here for you.

[onemore]

Hey waggers, yea like karend said its normaly about 3-4 days... Good luck at your appointment, Im sure you will have some good news to tell us all next week.

Karend - 6 months !!! wont be long now, I was on the waiting list for 9 months.

Hi to everyone else, hope your doing well.
xxx