I have to disagree a little bit with something you've said there Colleen, in relation to this specific paragraph (and I'm only speaking from personal experience so please don't be offended):

EVERY SINGLE WOMAN WHO HAS A M/C WILL SUDDENLY SEE PREGNANT WOMEN AND BABIES EVERYWHERE - its natural, so don't fight it - don't become a recluse in your own home because of it - don't avoid friends and family because they are expecting or have new babies, revel in the glory of that new child that has been put on this earth for great things.
For me, I simply had to be a recluse for a little while and avoid interaction with some people (friends, family and the general public). I felt such an immense pressure from the guilt that I had placed upon myself and simply could not bring myself to interact with people on a daily basis. When I tried, things went pear-shaped and I found it hampered my grieving process. There were also so many people that knew about our PG and the subsequent m/c of our first, and this worried me because I really felt that there were only a select group of people with whom I wanted to grieve with and discuss it with, and for people to continually ask questions (which a lot do, not meaning any harm IYKWIM) and look at me so sadly, I really felt that I would lose the plot altogether. Also, truthfully, it made me feel worse to see PG women because it baffled me - what had I done to deserve losing my babies?? I also got to a point where I couldn't cope with the look in the eyes of family and friends anymore, or having to deal with people ignoring the issue, so it was best for me to take some time out to collect my thoughts and to realise that other people simply don't know what to say, and whether they are expecting or already have children, it's not because they want to rub my nose in it IYKWIM, and besides, who was I to judge? Did I know the ins and outs of that ladies life walking down the road with a big grin on her face and heavily PG? After all, they could have well travelled the same path as me and I just didn't know it. I guess what I'm trying to emphasise here is that whilst long term, being a recluse and avoiding interaction with friends and families (and just the general public) because they have children or are expecting, isn't a good thing, in the short term, it may well be what you need in order to come to terms with your own life, and the life that you have lost. Sometimes people need a bit of time out from life in general to be able to put things into perspective and to be able to take a few tiny steps forward IYKWIM?? Everyone needs to do what is best for them, and for me, this was the best thing. I just wanted to share that because I really feel that it's important to not feel guilty if you do need some time out and away from things initially.