No worries at all Felius. I hate the fact that this particular forum even exists - I wish it didn't IYKWIM? It's just awful that people have to experience such tragedy. But, given that they sadly do, it's comforting to be able to share your experiences with other people.

I'm glad that you guys both came in here to share your journey because even though I'm halfway through a PG now (and I never in a million years thought I would get this far), I still suffered 2 devastating losses last year, for which the pain will never totally go away and I think I grieve for them in a way each and every day. I do know that by talking to others about their loss, as well as mine, that it actually helps me come to terms with it. I'm also glad that you offered your perspective as a male - I think it's offered us all some really valuable insight into how it feels for a guy.

To get off the subject for just a sec, I'm also just a bit chuffed to see a couple of fellow Tasmanians here - we're in the vast minority! So if either of you ever want to have a yap about anything else, stick your head into the Tassie forum ok??

Take care guys.....