Hi girls,

Keike- Caiden is a nice name I think. i feel for you with Professor having aspergers, my DH doesn't have it but being an engineer has a few elements all the same, its hard. I hope your dream comes true soon xx

Maruschke- thats shocking that your family is so unsupportive, lucky you have us!! My sisters are counsellors/ social workers so they can be too much sometimes, but it must be difficult to have no support. Hopefully you can have twins this round and say goodbye to ttc forever! xx

tellytubby- sorry you feel invisible very normal to be scared to ttc again, unfortuantely thats the only way to get utd again lol, praying your next is a sticky bub xx

Joeve-my Dh wants more than 1 (not sure how many) but the realistic view is we will be lucky to get one so we will see how that goes first!! I'm sure your DH will change his mind when he falls in love with your future bubby xx

Hi Pakrakmg xx

I'm really struggling with dh at the moment, I just keep thinking back to my last pregnancy, we never fought at all, dh and I were so happy and optimistic,I know it wouldn't have lasted but now all we do is fight, DH is stressed about potentially losing his job and I am in a tww (FET)that I think isn't going to work. We both can't get past our own pain to be comfort to each other. I keep thinking if I had never had my first miscarriage our relationship would be so different- no infertility, no multiple miscarriages, urggh sorry to offload to everyone....