My baby is in now for severe respectiory Distress and is full term although on the mend. I know I will have many mixed memories. The lack of care and communication in the private sector where we were not encouraged to even place a hand in our Childs humidy crib in scn and the sheer tears of unbelievable gratitude for the kindness in NICU when asked if we would like to change his nappy and the later was the second experience?? Where his condition was worse. Very different worlds. I'm sure I will have many more memories to come over the next few days