Lou, I'm really sorry to hear that you've had such poor care.

We were only in SCN, not NICU, but I found that the prevailing attitude would vary depending on which nurse was on duty. There were some that frowned upon us spending time in there with our boy, some that seemed to think that he belonged more to the nursery and them than he did to us. But others who were wonderful, caring, considerate and were just absolutely amazing in every way.

BW