Lulu, good on you. Actually, you have made this about you and her Dad (which it is), rather than put the problem squarely at her feet. I don't mean to pick on you BTW! But you're right, with some children, a strict routine is what they need and it's up to you (and her father - haha) to provide that. Sounds like it's tough to expect it to all fall on your shoulders, , I guess that's life sometimes. You will reap the rewards in the long run.

11 times isn't so bad for the first time. You will probably have setbacks even once she gets into the swing of things, but once you get on top of it you're right, your confidence will enable you to get right back on the horse.

GREAT JOB - You sound like the strong woman we all know and love once again!