yep i agree Shanti. i'm making the most of the cuddles with my boys at the moment. I often lie there just taking in the moment, particularly as we are not having any more kids, so i really want to savour this time when they are so young.
i've read all of pinky's books too. i think they're great.
The science of parenting really spells things out in a simple way i think, and just confirms everything we're already doing. it's great to have it as a source of support.