Thanks girls, especially dory.

It's kind of strange how so many of us have considered funeral options and that it's normal, I even mentioned to DH a couple of weeks ago that I wanted them all to have matching headstones.

JennaJayen - I have everything crossed for you that nothing happens and it's a good thing that you haven't had any bleeding this time, but I also understand. All of my pregnancies so far have had complications except this one and it seems so inevitable that I keep expecting something to go wrong. I agree with TylersMummy that talking to hubby about your concerns is a good idea.

Laney - that's great news that the scan went well and things seem to be calming down for you, now you can focus on the arrival of your little one. As to your question, i think it's quiet a personal choice, so take your time to make the right decision for you. I've always like the idea of having one earth baby for every angel baby we have, but as we know plans change and we don't always have control over it.

I finally got up the nerve to make the appointment, now I've just got to get up the courage to make go to the appointment. I've been an emotional wreck the last couple of days, I'm sure hormones and the holidays aren't helping. I'm just missing my angel's, especially Isabel, SO much at the moment and I'm worried because I know the closer I get to the same point this pregnancy the harder it's going to get (I'm going to be horrible to be around in 8wks time).

I hope everyone else is going well.