They are quite noisy, but you get used to it. And I always found it quite reassuring, while DH learnt to sleep right through
Just see how you go
Yep!
DS is still in with us and thats where i want him.......DH is OK with whatever i woudl like, it was only the first few weeks that i could hear DS and he would wake me, remember just because they are making noises doesnt mean they need to get up, i was so worried about DS waking DH that i would get him up and feed him when really he prob didnt need it, i learnt to let him make the noises and see where it led, if he woke then i would comfort or feed but most of the time he went straight back to sleep

i guess you can never tell till they are here