Give your DH a big kick up the bum for me. Tell him to write the letter and start the complaint process if he is soo determined you should. I understand that when you are that far along it can all get to be a bit too much, and takes so much time and energy fighting something - even if you do feel that some part of you does want to fight it. As for his complaint about being the driver - boohoo - tell him to try being the passenger when you are in labour: it is no walk in the park.



I hope you get a resolution to all of this soon.