Willow

I hate it when I have heaps to say but am pressed for time. Just wanted you to know you just articulated how I feel. But in my case, my DH feels the same way (like he's broken, emasculated) and this is an issue we also deal with. We now have what we were seeking - our child - but feel the process has forced us to evolve into different creatures. Some parts of the evolved "us" are good, but there are also so many diificult residual effects. Some we wonder if we'll ever surmount.