Gage First of all Congrats on the PG!!

I have gone right off BD'ing throughout this pregnancy. We used to DTD 4/5 times a week and DH is lucky now if he gets it once a week. Even then to be honest sometimes I only agree because I know that he wants to and it is important to me that he knows how much I love him and love being with him - It is not that I have been overwhelmed with need!!

There are also a lot of men out there who claim their partners are all ove rthem the whole pregnancy (lots of DH"s friends have told him this) which does raise the expectation level a lot!

For me, some of my lack of desire is due to a feeling of a lack of personal space. I know it sounds stupid, but with a baby taking up residence and making me feel tired, sick, uncomfortable 24/7 and struggling to work FT and clean up around the house and take care of DH, I simply don't have anything left to give.

In relation to what can you do - my advice is unfortunately the same as the others, you need to talk about it (again) with your DF. It is obviously something that is upsetting you a lot and it is something that is important to any relationship. From what I hear the DTD situation doesn't improve a great deal after baby comes along!!