Kitt3n - Shorty - Hiya, ya, but not getting it all, that's my concern. Am I bein selfish for wanting it, or is DF bein selfish for not seeing my point of view?
i dont mean to sound harsh -


I think in a way you are being selfish - Have you stopped to even think about how she actually feels down stairs - some females love sex while pregnant while others, they wont have sex until after bubs is born- when she is ready she will come to you... Everything changes down stairs, that includes the sensitivity... another reason she may not want it is probably the fear of hurting the baby (we all know that this is untrue if she's low risk) - when having sex to it may be sooooooooooooo painful for her as well -
be patient with her - being pregnant has its down sides -

my partner has never winged as he understands whats going on, maybe if you sit and make her a nice dinner, give her a foot rub, run her a bath, even a massage - but do not insinuate sex or foreplay, she may think ur touching her just for sex, it takes the pressure of her to (which can be another problem).

hope all works out, but try and pamper her and let her see your not interested which it will help relax her.