Hi Gage,
For me i posted a thread more to complain about DP's naging and wanting it ALL THE TIME... lol but ended up with a totally different perspective... My DP just needed to feel like i still wanted him around... I realised that while TTC i was the horn bag and it was frustrating for him - more like a job not enjoying it really... It was pressure for him (and myself also) When i started reading replies from people about what to suggest and what he may be feeling it was like a light switching on in my dumb womanly brain... lol

I never even began to imagine what he was going through... For my DP it was like you were saying- feeling like he was pushed aside, feeling unloved and also he told me it was like losing a friend... He said he was feeling like we were just room mates- no physical interaction, no love maybe a small peck hello and goodbye... Since then we've talked quite a bit about when were both feeling- he understands my side and now i understand his... Now he gives me space when i need it but also its in my head to think about his emotional need (that require physical emotional interaction) Now my DP is happy with once a week (sometimes i surprise him and it happens more) but at least its something, it may not be SEX but it could be the smaller little things a quick shower and even touching and kissing lets him know i still love him and still want him there. I;m sure that something would be better then absolutly nothing.

I really hope your DW understands your emotions- i think you sould be applauded for having the courage to come into a forum like this... My DP surley wouldnt have... like i said it may take a while for her to come round- preg is touch physically, emotionally etc but we often forget about the other person who made it possible to be carrying the child...

Maybe a nice chat, nothing to comfronting, just maybe tell her exactly how lost and empty your feeling, how your longing for some interaction from her, how your feeling neglected and pushed aside. Maybe even ask her if you've done something to make her feel like she is... There could bee something she's concerned about- feeling unsexy maybe??? reassure her of your feelings for her it could be that she feels turned off because shes insecure about whats happening or the changes to her body etc... I know it may not instantly solve the problem but maybe focusing on making her feel good and expressing your feelings openly (again not focusing on the need for SEX) maybe this may help her want to be more inimate...

Again good luck