just thought Id mention that since becoming PG , i have felt more emotionally needy and that when im feeling emotionally up we tend to DTD more often.

a few things that get me down are

* lack of conversation/ time( im at home ATM and DP works so really look foward to the adult interaction)

* lack of comfort from DP. Sometimes its not what your saying but what your doing about it. i constantly tell him that sex is the last thing on my mind. when i feel huge un co and ache. but he dosnt do anything about it KWIM.

* Also timeing is a big issue. she may feel like DTD but not when you do or while your out.

Maybe communicating about what makes you each feel good and finding a medium. We did. instead of DTD becasue of being un co we found alternatives.