Div - I packed my bags and moved away 7 months ago so that is done

organic - I have not read that particular book, but i have read a few books on love, marriage and realtionships, how male minds work and stuff.
This one doesn't deal with the differences between males and females which is why I like it. It deals with people in general.

After reading it I have empwered myself to give my XH as much love as humanley possible. The ultimate outcome is that he will feel full of love and start to reciprocate and the worst that could happen is that it is a waste of time.

Koorong stock the book (its not too religious though).