Hi everyone,dory-thanks for asking,the day i found hard,we had a memory cake around Matthew's grave,i donated teddy bears back to the hospital to give to other greiving families,did some journalling,kids did some pictures for his memory box.I agree with you that everyday is hard to live with our loss,i read the other day 'death ends a life but not a relationship',the love we have for them continues doesn't it,we need to hang on to that.How are you?...Gigi-It sounds like you've found lovely ways to remember your Daughter.What did you name her?