~Jo~ I dont want her too but I do not want to make her feel she has to sneak behind my back either as I did and I become her enemy, as this is a very impressionable age. Unless of course you have a child that is very withdrawn , my daughter is very socialble and thats my worry. They have load sin common actually as they are both intrested in sinmilair things, age is not about whats in common in my eyes, but its his wants and needs at that age that worry me.