well the good news is she is not going to date him, I went and had a shower and she did her usual and parked her bum on the toilet seat and we had a chat about it all, I asked her what she really felt about him , she said she liked him, not good enogh I thought she is not acting like a girl inlove to me or even remotley attracted to him, there was no reall sparks. So I said to her, do you get butterflies when you see him or does your heart pound really fast, and she said no it doesnt then I said sweetie then he isnt the one for you its just the idea of haivng someone more isnt it and she said yes. I told her that she hsould have those magical feelings and if she doenst then that is her inner self letting her know that there really isnt anyhting between them. I told her she shuod still be friendswith him though as friends are always great to have and if things chance then so be it, and if so then get him to wait till you are 16 then that will really prove if he respects you by waiting.

all girls thank you so very much, your a darling! We have actually offered her the pill several times but she really is adminent that she is going to save herself. I have explained to her that sex is more than just physical I explaoned that it comes iwth a whole heavy range of emotions and at her age she shouldn't and wouldnt wnat to have to deal with them, she should enjoy the freedom of not having to worry about wether she could be pregnant this month or a sexually transmitted disease because she is way to young to be so resposonsable to keep regular check ups at the docs and taking the pill everyday. My hubbie took her to our fmaily doc and they all had a talk about it and Chloe-Mae was offered the choice and she said she really wanst ready fot that responsabilty yet, and she realy did want to let her body finish devloping first. The doctor told her that that is a more mature approach than the girls having sex and that she shuld be proud of herself. I agreed with that!! LOL. So she has the prescription there if she needs it but she really is strong about not being ready yet and savinbg her flower as she calls it till it fully bloomed so to speak!


I am soooooooooooo happy I am so gald I listened to my gut instincs as it never lets me down, and I really dont have the best feeling about this boy, I cant help it even though I think he is a nice kid, something just doenst feel right to me so I am gald chloe-Mae listened to me and is listening to her innerself about it too!

Thank you so much ladies for being there!