Lisa thank you so much, sounds like you too will have this wonderful open , honest relationship with your babes as well.

I too grew up in a very strict household, so not sure why some people are thinking I was free as a bird to have my wild times, I wasnt. My mother was so against sex as she had her own hang ups that she calle dme a **** for just thinking about boys in a sexual way, which teenager do as there hormones are all over the place and no parnet can have control over that emotion! Any my sister was so scared about going ahainst my mothers wishes she went and got the pill ojn her own at 16 and therefore learnt "Nothing" about sex nor the emotions of it. I dont feel you can "Teach" someone how they should feel after they have sex, its a very personal thing, so no matter how much we think we can teach them that its all about the emotional side of it too, you justr cant, its a individual thing, and we all experience that differnetly and I tell my daughter this to.

I was raped at 14 and then met my hubbie and he is the only one I have ever had sex with, so yeah I was such a wild thing!! NOT. So its not like I had multiple partners, I had "ONe" and I am still with him, and it will be 18 years in 3 weeks time! We didnt marry till 8 years ago and whoopty do! Its about love not a damn piece of paper, that paper does not tell how much I give my heart to him, that piece of paper does not stop either partner cheating ......that paper is only to let the world know we have made it legal to committ to each other in the laws eyes, dont make me a saint in the world of sex!

My so asked me one day what does sex feel like for a women, I told him.....well you know those butterflies you get in your tummy when you are so very ecited about sowmthing you are looking forward too..........he says yeah.........I said....well double that , mixed in with your heart pouding through your chest like you could just burst into peices of the strongest love you have ever felt, and that is what sex feels like for me as a women, becuase every women will experince it differently! He was happy with that answer and now see's sex as something pure no something cheap and nasty to the other partner!