Joey, I totally agree with WTH! You have to do what you feel you need to. I also am internet-obsessed when it comes to TTC and pregnancy. I'm even already looking into things for school age children! I often see my DH's eyes glaze over when I start talking about something I've just learnt, lol! I'm lucky though because he's super-supportive. So maybe just let your family know that the research is what makes you feel more comfortable and at ease, and to just let you continue. Just remember that for every opinion you can find somewhere on the net, there is usually a differeing opionion out there too. You may never find the exact answers you are after, but at least you can make informed decisions and know that you are doing your best for yourself and your future bundle of joy