thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October '08

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    megsmum--It's official.... we're cycle buds again! Welcome to the TWW! Glad to hear your IUI went well! Will keep the going for your BFP!!



    Krystie--I thought for sure I must be seeing things! It's YOU! I knew I missed you, but it wasn't until I saw you're beautiful avi that it really hit me how much I've missed you! Have you noticed how advanced little Chyan is? Check her out.... she has already learned how to flip people off! (it said not to tell, but I felt you should know that she's learning some terrible habits in that belly of yours!) Oh, yes, would love the book if you're willing to send it to me! Love you lots, Krystie! So glad to finally hear from you.... hope the m/s eases soon! *kiss*



    Angel--Stalk away! Maybe it will bring me good luck! I like the new saying in your sig, "Sometimes we need to change the paths we walk". Will always for your miracle, Angel!

    p.s. The teach in me just can't help it.... it's hallucinations! Yeah, I know, bite you....Love ya lots! *kiss*



    Mannie--Thanks!

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    Sorry, girls, got caught up in chat this am.... will have to finish persies later this afternoon! Big for everyone! Thinking of you all!

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    Jen Jen... you got it.... here it goes..... ready... its coming..............Bite......... Me... now if you push those a little closer together Bite....Me ooooops a little closer bite me.... ohhh see there you go... when you push those 2 words together it says BITE ME.... fancy that...ROFL

    Love ya

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    Angel....

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    Am sooooo bored at work

    thought i'd pop in and drop a little message, i see some of you need picking up off the floor as you seem to be rolling around a bit

    Well it's only 3 days till i'm 12 weeks and 9 days till my scan! i think i'm going to a lot between now and then and hope everything is ok

    spose i better try and do some work (I love this one, this is what i want to do to mine!!)

    Catch you laters

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    Easha--Aww, honey, I'm so sorry I wish I had something exceptional to say to help you feel less pain and disappointment. Know that this is filled with love and support... wish I could give it to you in person!



    Mel-- I'm glad you found your way to our little thread, although for obvious reasons, I wish we weren't all here! You're definitely NOT alone with your feelings! I that we're able to offer you all the comfort and support you need throughout your journey.... And, hey, you're not jealous and bitter, you're heartbroken... it's normal and natural for you to feel that way! I hope your journey with us is short and sweet, and you're blessed with a quick, sticky BFP!!



    mollycat--Yay! I caught some Thanks! How's that Java coming along? No luck yet? Did you sign up for a new account?



    Hello's and to chappas (sorry about the BFN!), Milla, fifi, & Tam
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    for everyone!!!!! does anyone chat or just post. I am very new to this.

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    Hi Team

    Sorry have been offline - have been in Syds with DP and limited internet.

    Welcome Jonisteve - sorry for your loss darling hopefully your stay will be short. People tend to do either (chat or post) or both honey - do whatever you feel comfortable with.
    Mummy of 3b - I am so so sorry that you are having to live through your loss again. I totally understand how this would bring all those feelings back. My heart goes out to your DH's cousin and she is in my prayers.
    Chappas - so sorry sweetheart
    Jenushka - what a wonderful doctor you have - that must have been terrifying for you - you can hopefully breathe a little easier now. Yay!
    Issy and 21 - wise words darling - it is so easy to get lost in your own grief and forget people have had to walk their own path
    Smi - Happy Monday to you too petal

    Sorry to anyone I have missed - hate losing a couple of days on here I feel like a total novice when I come back.

    AFM - had bloods done again yesterday to see when to start Syneral and was told by the receptionist that I am not to start Syneral as my levels are not right yet. This led to the usual bawling my eyes out and today I am waiting to speak to my FS to see what the dealio is. I think I started too early and need to wait for my next period b4 TTC with again. Oh well, I made some fabulous tahini balls in my grief stricken moment. I am one of these weird people that cook their way through sadness. There is probably a scientific tissue:tahini ball/anzac biscuit etc ratio I could use.
    Love to you all
    Adelexxx

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    Just a quick little reminder to everyone who is doing the candle lighting for Pregnancy Loss and Awareness day...... Tomorrow is the day..... and its at 7pm for one hour and further information is on the october15th web site.

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    jenushka (the most Zen of all TP checkers )--That was a How scary for you, though! Glad that you were able to get right into the dr. That is very strange that he/she had never heard of Progesterone support during pg'cy! Hooray for Dr. Amazing--I'm so grateful that you have her! Hope the spotting stays away.... just relax as much as you can...sending lots of positive



    fifi--You must be so excited about your upcoming scan!



    jonisteve-- So sorry for your loss, and that those are the circumstances under which we are meeting. I think maybe your body is still trying to get back to normal... although I didn't have a D&C, it still took some time for my body to get back to whatever "normal" is for me. Might be safer to give it one more month if you can stan the wait.... I know for me it was impossible to wait the 2 months that my dr. suggested I wait! I pray you feel comfortable and supported here--this is a great bunch of girls!

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    smi--Hey girlie friend! Hope your Monday wasn't too crappy.... mine was too busy to be crappy! But I feel I got some stuff accomplished, so that's a good thing! So how's it going with the Lee sitch?



    plc--Argh! Yes, sorry, you missed another chat... but it was just me and Angel, so there was no surprise banners, balloons, etc. like you've all done for me before! Bellyrubs for you! *kiss*



    mollycat--Ok, I'm going to have to hold you to that night-time daycare just so I can get you into chat just once! Or maybe I'll just you get a wild hair up your booty one of these Friday nights!



    21--No worries here with feeling like you're the only one left in a TTC forum. At my last count there were at least 26 of us here! And I've had 4 m/c's total, so I know a little something about having to bide my time and wait my turn. You just continue on everyday because you have to.... one foot in front of the other.... sure, there's disappointments, but such is life...you just keep keeping on, while supporting each other along the way. Just wanted to make sure you realized that you're NOT the only one left, unfortunately, there's too many of us!



    issy--What you said what beautifully worded! You're awesome! Lot's of super duper big, huge coming at you right now! Careful, you're about to be knocked over! I have so much respect for you, thanks for your kind words--and you're absolutely right!



    AJC--*waving* Going to join us in chat again on Friday? for you and some too!

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    jonisteve Guest

    I think I'll stay even after. I have felt so alone in this even with my dh. sometimes I feel like he didn't even hurt. but, I know that he did. he just doesn't show emotion very much. Does it ever get any easier? I know it's only been 2 weeks, I just feel like doing nothing and crying alot. I have to make myself get out of bed. I know none of this was my fault, but it still hurts just the same. after spotting all day yesterday and cramping (friday will be 2 wks after d and c) nothing today. It was wishful thinking that ant flo was here early and we were ready to start trying. dh wants to wait 2 cycles. I' m impatient.

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    jonisteve....... hun do you know how to get to the chat section of this site..... if you look to the top of the page your on now... there are pink tabs right up the top.... the 4th one along says live chat...... if you click on that it might not work straight away because you may have to sort your java out but once you have it sorted it means we will be able to chat live to you.... when you go in there you will see differnt rooms... we go to the miscarriage and loss room.

    Hopefully see you soon.... maybe just a big chat could be just what you need...... i ll put the kettle on you bring the chocolates...

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    Will be back again later for the rest of the persies that I still haven't been able to finish! I'm working on it, though! Just don't want anyone to think I forgot them!