thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October '08

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    Mar 2008
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    jenushka (the most Zen of all TP checkers )--That was a How scary for you, though! Glad that you were able to get right into the dr. That is very strange that he/she had never heard of Progesterone support during pg'cy! Hooray for Dr. Amazing--I'm so grateful that you have her! Hope the spotting stays away.... just relax as much as you can...sending lots of positive



    fifi--You must be so excited about your upcoming scan!



    jonisteve-- So sorry for your loss, and that those are the circumstances under which we are meeting. I think maybe your body is still trying to get back to normal... although I didn't have a D&C, it still took some time for my body to get back to whatever "normal" is for me. Might be safer to give it one more month if you can stan the wait.... I know for me it was impossible to wait the 2 months that my dr. suggested I wait! I pray you feel comfortable and supported here--this is a great bunch of girls!

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    smi--Hey girlie friend! Hope your Monday wasn't too crappy.... mine was too busy to be crappy! But I feel I got some stuff accomplished, so that's a good thing! So how's it going with the Lee sitch?



    plc--Argh! Yes, sorry, you missed another chat... but it was just me and Angel, so there was no surprise banners, balloons, etc. like you've all done for me before! Bellyrubs for you! *kiss*



    mollycat--Ok, I'm going to have to hold you to that night-time daycare just so I can get you into chat just once! Or maybe I'll just you get a wild hair up your booty one of these Friday nights!



    21--No worries here with feeling like you're the only one left in a TTC forum. At my last count there were at least 26 of us here! And I've had 4 m/c's total, so I know a little something about having to bide my time and wait my turn. You just continue on everyday because you have to.... one foot in front of the other.... sure, there's disappointments, but such is life...you just keep keeping on, while supporting each other along the way. Just wanted to make sure you realized that you're NOT the only one left, unfortunately, there's too many of us!



    issy--What you said what beautifully worded! You're awesome! Lot's of super duper big, huge coming at you right now! Careful, you're about to be knocked over! I have so much respect for you, thanks for your kind words--and you're absolutely right!



    AJC--*waving* Going to join us in chat again on Friday? for you and some too!

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    Hey Jen Jen... whats with this "it was just me and Angel" .... whats with the JUST.... well well.. so thats how you really feel....

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    mummyO3B--Aww, honey, well of course you would be devastated for your DH's cousin! I'm so very sorry for her and her family! Please don't feel guilty--you never wished for this to happen to her! If anything, you'll be able to be that much more supportive of her since you know some of what she's going through. Sorry to hear about your BFN... hope things get worked out soon, one way or the other. Chin up, hon!



    dellydoo--Sounds like you need some of these Hope your FS can give you some answers!



    Angel--Still haven't gotten my pins in the mail for Oct. 15th! Hope it comes tomorrow so I can wear it on Wed! Bought a candle that I'm going to keep lit all day! Thanks for the reminder! *kiss*

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    Angel-- You know that's NOT what I meant you big doof! I was saying it was only us in there--not that it was JUST us, like we're chopped liver or something! Would I really say that about US? See, now don't you feel like a schmuck!

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    Ok, ladies, I think I'm caught up for the most part, at least with those who posted. Sorry to those I missed.... Toccara-- for you! I gotta get to bed, I'm beat! Will be back bright and early in the am! for all! *kiss* for some! You know who you are!

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    So now your calling me a schmuck..... its bad enough that its JUST me... but now I m a schmuck too nope nope... not listening anymore




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    May 2008
    NSW
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    A me-post. Skip if you don't want to get out your violin.

    As you can see by my new glorious signature my first IVF with PGD cycle was cancelled. I did end up growing a wonderful 11 follies and had much higher estrogen after the weekend - I thought all was well. But this IVF business is a bit more complicated then I thought. I had 3 over 10mm and they wanted more. They chose to halt my FSH after just 10 injections. I am really disappointed. My clinic gave me the option to take the trigger injection last night and then we DTD tonight/tomorrow morning in a hope of catching the egg. In desperation we have chosen to do this.

    But, as you know, this defeats the purpose of IVF with PGD. It is such a gamble for us. I am hoping my FS (who I am seeing on Friday) will let us try a different type of cycle using Orgulutran (spelling?) when my AF comes. Otherwise, if we do a down reg cycle, I will clash with the Christmas business hours and they will not let me do another cycle until next January. I just don't think I can hold out that long.

    To MegsMum and Angel - thank you. I really have appreciated your support these past few days

    Take care
    WTH

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    I've just logged on quickly while at work as I want to get opinions of something. But couldn't go past COLOR="Purple"]wth[/COLOR]without giving you a big . I don't know that much about the IVF process so I can't really offer any advice. But I'm sorry you've had this latest disappointment.

    AFM - I wanted to ask about something I plan to do tomorrow. Since its is pregnancy loss remembrance day, I'm planning to send an email to tell those people in my life who don't already know about my m/c. I figured it would serve to promote awareness as well as help me avoid the question "So, when are you having kids?" An email means I can tell everyone at once without having to deal with well-intentioned but ultimately stupid comments. Am I being a coward? Is it corny?

    Sorry for the lack of persies. Will come back after work.

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    Oct 2007
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    WTH - So sorry that your first IVF cycle isn't to go ahead as planned. Hopefully the trigger shot and the eggies growing in those fat follicles will give you some luck! If it doesn't happen this month, then I hope your FS lets you change to the orangutan cycle. Yup, I know that I spelt it totally wrong, but monkeys are cute yeah? Hehehe. Good luck honey!!!

    Angel schmuck - I'm definitely going to be lighting my candle tomorrow in remembrance of not only my own angel baby, but for the angel's of all the ladies that have come and gone through this thread, and all the other angel's that have not been destined to live in the arms of their parents.

    Hen Schmuck - Now now, just because little chyan has the ability to flip the bird, doesn't mean that she hasn't got enough manners and proper upbringing to know to only use it in extreme circumstances :P

    Hmmmm, the little emoticon has changed. It's still cute.... but I liked the old one better with the little baby trying to stand and falling on it's butt. Hehehehe