Thanks TM - my mother spoke to my brother and before she could get very far he confessed to making a joking about 'losing' a baby and he said that he knew what he had done but didn't know how to get out of it so kept babbling other things. He obviously was aware at the time but panicked.
So at least he knows what he said. My dad can't understand why he didn't stop though and just apologise for being insensitive. And he hasn't called or emailed to apologise. It is in his hands now - you would think that having 2 sisters with late losses he would learn. He just jokes too much and sometimes he upsets people because his jokes can hurt.
TM glad to hear your grandfather has stabilised for the time being. I hope your family are keeping well with all the stress you have had recently.
How is everyone.
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