Ladies, I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. MY DH and I had an awful Christmas. Much worse than last year. It took me a long time to decide but I went home to visit my family over Christmas. My brother and SIL were going to have their one month old home over Christmas so I knew how emotional it was going to be for me. It was a 6 hour drive in blowing snow. When we got there my DH was taking our bags up to the extra room at my parents house and my mom told him to take everything into the office instead. She said that my brother and SIL decided to stay with my parents at the last minute. I was so upset. I might have been ready to meet their little girl but I was not ready to spend 3 days in the next room. I should have had my little boy with us last year and I should have had my 4 month old little girl this year. I cried about it all night and in the morning I asked my sister if I could stay with her. She told me that I could not stay with them and to stop acting like a spoiled brat. She also said that I will lose the rest of my family (not just my babies) if I don't stop avoiding people! I couldn't even respond to her I have never been so hurt. I was so mad at everyone, myself, my mom for not telling me about my brother and sil, and my sister for never being there for me when I needed her. My DH and I went home that afternoon on Christmas Eve. I spent all day on Christmas crying and I am still not recovered from my family not even trying to understand what I am going through. I am not too sure how the family is ever going to recover from this Christmas. Everyone left with hurt feelings.
Last edited by Laney; December 28th, 2008 at 06:17 AM.
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